See, I'm terrible (btw loved your post but don't have time to read -must swim - so will comment later!), I have two characters where one does not actually care that the other is unfaithful, because it is not in his nature to really give a shit as long as he comes home to him. And I see nothing wrong with this *waits to be attacked by the romance police* because I don't think what I'm writing is romance, more a social commentary on church versus secularism in 15th C florence and how "plus ca change, plus la meme chose"