erastes: (grumpy bluebird)
[personal profile] erastes
Now, this is  probably coming from the viewpoint of "person who doesn't have a significant other" but SHEESH people why do these celebration days have to start a week early?  It's Valentine's DAY. Not Valentine's WEEK.

It's bad enough when Christmas starts in August and Guy Fawkes' goes on for the week before and the week afterwards but everyone's been banging on about Valentines for ever.  stop it!

Date: 2010-02-13 01:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] baritonejeff.livejournal.com
Cranberry juice, dear. Lots and lots of cranberry juice.

Date: 2010-02-13 09:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
Only in certain situations and Jeff isn't in danger of those.

Date: 2010-02-13 01:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moons-storm.livejournal.com
I've never understood the appeal of Valentine's Day (let alone a Valentine's week), and I do have a significant other. :)

Date: 2010-02-13 01:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] moons-storm.livejournal.com
Sadly, chocolate is forbidden to me! *weeps*

Date: 2010-02-13 01:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] copperbeech.livejournal.com
Marketing. I swear it. It's ridiculous. We don't honor it and never have. Pfft.

Date: 2010-02-13 09:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
Drives me BONKERS.

Date: 2010-02-13 01:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lee-rowan.livejournal.com
Even with a significant otter, the hype is ridiculous. Ads with "Valentine's Day Presents!" featuring expen$ive i-phones and other techie toys...

It's marketing. It's always marketing.

And my sweetie's off to see her mother. Again. Has to, it's the only break she'll have and it's an all-day drive each way, but... it's her mom, and she's 90, so... maybe I'll bake some catnip cookies and go buy the dog a hamburger.

We should throw a Grumpy Broads Day bitch-in on some list or other.

Date: 2010-02-13 03:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nagasvoice.livejournal.com
I like the idea of a Grumpy Broads Day.

Date: 2010-02-13 04:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aphephobia.livejournal.com
Ads with "Valentine's Day Presents!" featuring expen$ive i-phones and other techie toys...

Or pink, fluffy plush toys with little red hearts on them and cutesy messages, which serve absolutely no practical use beyond being a gift for someone on what's apparently a special day. I don't get it: I don't want that shit. Why are women expected to fall for that crap? Personally, I want the techie toys.

My parents' wedding anniversary is Valentines' Day... only my dad died ten years ago, so it's kind of a bonus kick-in-the-pants for my mum. Since it's Chinese New Year, though, I might take everyone out to a nice Chinese restaurant or something.

Date: 2010-02-13 09:57 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
If you can get a table this late! Hope you have a good time, it would be good to create a new tradition! I miss being somewhere to see Chinese New Year traditions.

And I like da gadgets too. Not bears. Ick.

Date: 2010-02-13 09:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
It's not just the marketing - which is bad enough - but everyone on my flist too - valentine memes, valentine's wishes, valentine videos! Go beserk on the day, but don't subject me to a week or more of it!

I like the idea of that - especially living on the Broads.

Date: 2010-02-13 01:58 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] joannesopercook.livejournal.com
I love it when you turn into a grumpy old broad. It gives me such hope for the world. ;-)

*runs away* :)

Date: 2010-02-13 09:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
I'm grumpy a lot more often than I post! :) My IM'ers can attest to that!

Date: 2010-02-14 08:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chris-smith-atr.livejournal.com
Don't lie, Fairy Hedgehog of the kingdom of goodwill and bunnies and unicorns!

I wish to inform you that I snorted tea out of my nose while writing that.

OMG I CAN POST A COMMENT!

Date: 2010-02-13 02:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] haydenthorne.net (from livejournal.com)
S'about time, too.

¬___¬

Re: Valentine's Day. I fucking loathe that "holiday." Good thing it's on the same day as Chinese New Year, so I can at least forget about snuggly-wuggly things and watch some real fireworks explode.

And the Winter Olympics! Woot!

P.S. You wanna know what's worse about V-Day? Those horrible, sappy-ass jewelry commercials that make you want to commit hara-kiri (unless a full-system infection takes place first after all your teeth rot and drop off).

Re: OMG I CAN POST A COMMENT!

Date: 2010-02-13 09:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
Hurrah - welcome back!

No Chinese New Year for us in deepest Norfolk, but it must be cool for you being where you are.

Luckily we don't get those adverts! Thank the Lord for small mercies!!

Date: 2010-02-13 04:07 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] cassiopaya.livejournal.com
I'd much rather celebrate Steak and Cunnilingus Day.

Date: 2010-02-13 09:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
Now that is a day I could get behind. Under. Whatever! :)

Date: 2010-02-13 04:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aphephobia.livejournal.com
YES! Seriously, YES.

(btw, they started selling Easter eggs at the end of January over here. How's that for nuts?)

Date: 2010-02-13 09:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
The eggs always go up after Christmas here - it's kind of a tradition I think but really - who wants to buy a four month old piece of choc?

Date: 2010-02-13 09:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] aphephobia.livejournal.com
If they're Cadbury Creme eggs, I'd be happy if they were around all year, to be honest... they barely last four minutes for me, let alone four months. But the packaged up stuff? Yeah: what's up with that?

Date: 2010-02-13 07:12 am (UTC)
beckyblack: (pesky kids)
From: [personal profile] beckyblack
:: uses own grumpy old broad icon ::

Valentine's day has become ridiculous (and men get the worst of it! At least in money terms.) Sending a card - fine. Nice tradition. But now it seems like if the man isn't sending 2 dozen red roses, a truck full of Belgian chocolates, cuddly toys, diamonds, sexy underwear and booking a romantic dinner - with obligatory champagne - and a weekend away to some romantic spot... well he's not really trying is he? And he's getting nothing for six months, that selfish git!

Date: 2010-02-13 08:42 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chris-smith-atr.livejournal.com
Well, I may readjust my stated position below for diamonds. But I'd accept those ANY day of the year.

Date: 2010-02-13 09:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
Have created my own GOB icon for the occasion!

Absolutely. Card and chocs - that's all that's needed (although opals are accepted with a winsome smile and a tackle that will let me beat you to the floor)

Date: 2010-02-13 08:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] chris-smith-atr.livejournal.com
The boy and I don't do it. Full stop. We think it is the most stupid "get out of jail free just because I ignore you for the rest of the year one day makes up for all" bollocks.

Please don't be a grumpy old woman ad infinitum. I don't want to have to go around calling you "Mommy". It would be VERY disturbing. :P

MWAH

Date: 2010-02-13 09:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
Yes, that would be horrible. Have my new Grumpy Old Broad Icon. Literary too!

Date: 2010-02-13 09:09 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] souliesoul.livejournal.com
Yes, this is so annoying - the adverts have been in overdrive this year. Apple has been emailing me for weeks trying to convince me to buy an iPod for a non-existent significant other. :/ It also annoys me that Easter eggs have been on sale since they took down the Christmas stuff...

Date: 2010-02-13 09:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
Yes they tend to do that with the eggs - it used to be just creme eggs now all of them... not really complaining about that though...

Date: 2010-02-13 10:36 am (UTC)
angrboda: Viking style dragon head finial against a blue sky (Default)
From: [personal profile] angrboda
Only a week? You lucky bint...

I actually have a boyfriend this year (first time ever on Vday) and I still don't care about it. I'm such a grinch about in and I'm hoping against hope that he's forgotten. I'm not a naturally romantic person, and I totally can't be romantic on command. It's really only the media and the shops that are paying that much attention to it over here trying to convince us to buy shit.

Date: 2010-02-13 11:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] feed-your-muse.livejournal.com
My friend gets even more peeved - her birthday is on Valentine's Day and she can't go out for a meal etc. because she says it just doesn't feel like a brithday because everyone's so focussed on the lovey-dovey that it doesn't occur to them that someone might want to go out for another reason on that day!

So on Sunday we shall be watching a DVD and eating in; next week the clan will go out for a belated birthday meal.

Merry =^..^=

Date: 2010-02-13 11:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lg-larocque.livejournal.com
Valentine's Day is overrated. And based on something I find just a bit off-putting.

Yes, I like the gifts, and chocolate, but I can buy myself chocolate, flowers at this time of year are way overpriced and underfresh, and it's "amature night" when trying to dine out. Everybody who never went to dinner in their lives, or go through the motions of their once-a-year obligatory date is out on that night. Service is rushed, food is cold and over cooked.

No thankyou. Expressions of love should happen all year and not reserved for one Hallmark Holiday.

I have too many friends who pine and pout they don't have a date, settling instead on going out with ANYONE who will have them for Valentine's day. That's not love, that's desperation. "OMG! I HAVE TO HAVE A DATE FOR VALENTINES DAY OR I AM NOTHING!!!" Fail.

Date: 2010-02-13 07:34 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] spirit-serpenti.livejournal.com
I find the need for Valentine's Day absurd - I feel like it has been forced upon us by Hollywood-made romantic comedies. Besides, people who are in love shouldn't need an exact day to celebrate their love.

In my country we also have another holiday on Feb 14 - it's the traditional day of grapevines, wine and drinking in general. Even though I have a date tomorrow, I would much rather get drunk with my boyfriend than us giving each other heart-shaped chocolates or pink teddy bears. *lol*

Date: 2010-02-13 11:42 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] jaye-valentine.livejournal.com
Not my favorite holiday, as the result is a bazillion extra Google Alerts notifications in my inbox that have fuck-all to do with me.

I'm perfectly content to skip it completely and move on to a proper drinking-excuse holiday.

Date: 2010-02-14 08:16 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] erastes.livejournal.com
sounds like a good idea to me!

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