Thoughts about fathers
Jun. 21st, 2009 05:03 pmJust noticed that Torquere have a father’s day sale. Now, I know there are some gay fathers, but… otherwise. I can just see my father’s face if I handed him a book on gay werewolf porn. *runs*
Somewhere else, last week, I saw someone getting sporked because erotica writers were dedicating books to their fathers. Now, I don’t see anything wrong with this, actually. My dad is hugely supportive—in so many ways—and I firmly plan to dedicate Mere Mortals to him. Yes, it’s a gay (Victorian gothic mystery) romance. I know he won’t read it, because of the Alheimzer’s (if indeed it ever gets published, lets not jump the gun here, eh? But he deserves the dedication. I don’t think dedications mean “hey dedicatee, READ THIS BOOK” – rather it’s a (hopefully) lasting testament to someone who means a lot, and someone who has helped.
I love to read dedications because sometimes they are deliciously vague. “To Mr Winthrope and he knows why” or “To a dark haired beauty” or whatever and I love to wonder who these people are and what part they took in the author’s life.
I found it rather sad that the restaurant, which we went to today and we couldn’t get a seat in for love and money on MOTHER’S DAY was notably empty of families celebrating their Dads.
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Date: 2009-06-21 05:09 pm (UTC)