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[erastes]

Every tender thought goes out to rwday whose father has died suddenly. This has hit me hard, still reeling for my mother.  I have never met rwday but I've known her every day for nearly four years and she's closer to me than any sister.

I love you, Becky - and am thinking of you, and grieving with you.

Secondly, I'm starting a friends cull. If LJ's haven't been updated for months, or if you've never ever commented on my LJ or I've never commented on yours then we aren't getting along. If I've cut you and you feel you really really can't live without me, then let me know - or if you really want to be added and feel miffed that I haven't added you yet then comment. It's the only way to get added, really, to show an interest in my burbling.  (or be Jason) You ain't missing anything if I haven't though - very little is flocked.

Life is just full of bad news today. 

Comments

[sionnain.livejournal.com]

I would be sad if you cut me, so plz to be keeping me, yes? ::makes cute face::

And poor rwday! Gosh, I wish I could have an island where all my LJ friends lived so I could hug them for real when they needed it.

[erastes.livejournal.com]

Yes yes, not you!

[liebesdammerung.livejournal.com]

*CLINGS* <3333333333333334444444444444499999999999999

[erastes.livejournal.com]

*uses glue*

[cynbaby.livejournal.com]

That really does suck. It's never easy loosing a parent.

You don't know me, and I don't expect you to friend me back, but I am a fan of your novel, Standish, and just like to keep tabs on writers I enjoy.

[erastes.livejournal.com]

That's very kind of you, I'm very happy you liked it. I hope you'll stick around for the trials and tribulations of getting Transgressions sold and Out there!

[aigooism.livejournal.com]

*hugs* It's amazing how close people can get despite never meeting one another. I hope tomorrow gets better for you.

[erastes.livejournal.com]

I'm much better than I was, I just grieved on rwday's behalf because it was so unfair and so sudden.

Thanks you darling *hug*

[schmoo999.livejournal.com]

**smooches and lovies just cause**

[erastes.livejournal.com]

*hugglyhughug*

B.

[dubaiyan.livejournal.com]

Thought of you when I heard.

Re: B.

[erastes.livejournal.com]

Thanks darling. It's a horrid dark time

*hug*

[aunty_marion]

Please keep me! I do so love your rants and general wibbling and waffling and other such stuff! (Not to mention the Snucius...)

A good friend of mine who I'd never met died just a month ago, and he was only a few years older than I am, too. It is hard when unknown friends go.

[erastes.livejournal.com]

Oh all right - if you insist!! *G*

I dread someone i love online dying. That's awful.

[elisa-rolle.livejournal.com]

Yes a very bad day indeed. I have just finished to read a book, not a keepers, but enjoyable. So I decide to join the yahoo group of the author (I have joined many yahoo group but only on few of them I write) and I have read in the messages that he is in hospital, intensive care... I know that I really don't know him, so I really can't be sad for him, but I'm. When I read something by someone, I read a little of him... ciao, elisa

[erastes.livejournal.com]

I hope he's ok

[elisa-rolle.livejournal.com]

He replies to me today (I wrote to him to say I have liked his books): he is at home now and he has 2000 mail to read and his greatest regret is that he has passed 2 months without writing at all... ciao, elisa

[iulia_linnea.livejournal.com]

How sad for rwday. It's no consolation to have the loss of a parent in common with a good friend, but I hope that you'll both be able to take solace from your friendship as you work through your grief. My best to both of you. *hugs*

[ter369.livejournal.com]

Thank you for the update on rwday.

I hesitate to ...

It's the only way to get added, really, to show an interest in my burbling. (or be Jason)...


BWAH!

...over that line, but humor makes any day bearable.

[erastes.livejournal.com]

There's always time for humour, even on days like today!

[tharain.livejournal.com]

Long as you're on my F-list, I'm fine. I don't think you ever added me. So, I'm good. =-)

[erastes.livejournal.com]

Aw thanks!

[ariadneelda.livejournal.com]

I don't really know rwday but I've enjoyed several of her HP fics and I'm really sorry for her loss. :(

*hugs to you, too*

[erastes.livejournal.com]

Yes, her fics were wonderful.

Thanks darling

[spacetweenears.livejournal.com]

Hugs to you and rwday

[erastes.livejournal.com]

It's just unreal. *hugs back*

[zehavit-lamasu.livejournal.com]

I am so sorry to hear that - I never lost a close family member and dread even to think about it :(

R W Day book is one of the five highlights of 2006 for me - I was going to rave about it on my LJ ... now I am scared knowing she has a LJ >_<(probably do it anyway - I only have good things to say about it).

[erastes.livejournal.com]

Yes, would be lovely to see you review it, Thaw is one of the highlights of the year for me too. I hope she manages to sell the sequel, because it's even better...

[sabethea.livejournal.com]

I have never met some of my best friends. It doesn't mean I don't share their pain. *shy hugs for you both*

I will continue to read your posts and probably comment on them, as I'm a serial commenter, whether or not you friend me. My life, to be honest, isn't wildly interesting so I will not be offended if you don't.

[erastes.livejournal.com]

Thankyou, your shy hugs are very appreciated.

*hugs back*

[rwday.livejournal.com]

Thank you, sweetie. *hugs*

[erastes.livejournal.com]

Well you are - my sister is a waste of space, so you are just a sister I don't see much of.

xxx